tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post4090427136203769283..comments2023-10-22T08:47:47.207-07:00Comments on Kim's Kitchen Sink: On Leaning OutKimhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12548150437127473109noreply@blogger.comBlogger24125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-63466517959602193342013-10-23T08:13:29.004-07:002013-10-23T08:13:29.004-07:00you should say noyou should say noSumon Chowdhurynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-59629641271829861162013-09-30T06:30:25.116-07:002013-09-30T06:30:25.116-07:00My name is Adelto FROM ANGOLA and i need your frie...My name is Adelto FROM ANGOLA and i need your friend ship.my mail is adeltombongo@gmail.com send some mensage.please you look nice girl for me can you come to ANGLOA?and meet me?adelto mbongonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-33043084644245015282013-09-27T02:42:55.130-07:002013-09-27T02:42:55.130-07:00thnx for sharethnx for shareaccelerate yourmarketinghttp://www.accelerateyourmarketing.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-20972862806311354082013-09-21T12:27:54.021-07:002013-09-21T12:27:54.021-07:00,,.- ahojky ono toto je skvělé , bavtese .- pracuj...,,.- ahojky ono toto je skvělé , bavtese .- pracujte , i si hrajte s radostí , láskou a to ve jměnu dobra a především pozitivního myšlení a pak se vám to určíte v r á t í v d ob r é m ..-Ing. Jan Ulčnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-26857041622969391252013-09-21T10:09:01.058-07:002013-09-21T10:09:01.058-07:00Interesting. You guys were talking about me. Jeez!...Interesting. You guys were talking about me. Jeez! I learned to say NO at 50! Sad but the truth. One thing I don't regret about saying yes is that I did it with an open heart, mind and soul with a passion. I said yes to everyone in my family, distant relatives, my in laws and friends and church. I could sometime live on credit to accommodate a yes. Very sad. Even when my wife told me she was leaving me and my marriage, I said YES! Even after leaving me with kids, I still allowed her to withdraw from the bank account. Not until she took a lump sum out and closed the account did I realize what saying YES as a generosity can do. It coated me our home I built from scratch. Life can be a challenge when we don't do the right thing at the right time , simply because we stuck at yes. I never took a vocation for myself until this summer when I learned to say NO! It is amazing how powerful and strong you can be when you learn the power of NO in your life. Thank you Kim, am a strong man now. I have regained my life making this transition. Say NO when it means NO and allude to yes when you able to without regrets.petreausnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-77954188102513078272013-09-21T06:01:05.828-07:002013-09-21T06:01:05.828-07:00hellohellokapil Devnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-52024842274012168992013-09-21T05:03:24.100-07:002013-09-21T05:03:24.100-07:00Sir/Madam,
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Thanks f...Haha, I like that. Lean to the side! :)<br /><br />Thanks for commenting!Kim's Kitchen Sinkhttp://www.kimskitchensink.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-65325380929511944912013-09-20T11:23:56.926-07:002013-09-20T11:23:56.926-07:00then lean to the side.then lean to the side.ultrasbugsynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-82981743341083178252013-09-20T11:19:34.878-07:002013-09-20T11:19:34.878-07:00Everyone is afraid to say no to someone. It just ...Everyone is afraid to say no to someone. It just depends on the circumstances. I was terrible at saying no to every one my entire life until I realized that I was so stressed out I couldn't even sleep, even after putting in an average of 60 hours a week at a very busy Emergency Department in a very busy neighborhood in a large city. 2 Full time jobs later and caring for a very sick and demanding parent I took a look at myself in the mirror and did not recognize myself. That was the day I started to say no to co-workers to cover their shifts; no I could not contribute 4 hours to the Xmas bazaar, no not even 2 hours. No I cannot pick you up from the airport, take a cab, no I cannot take you to the train get on the bus. I(t comes as a shock to those who are used to you saying yes all the time but eventually they realize Hey she's tired and busy. Depend on yourself to take you where you want to go. Plan ahead and compensate.ultrasbugsynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-84075816539759641492013-08-15T11:36:37.626-07:002013-08-15T11:36:37.626-07:00We're all afraid, it's in our genes. There...We're all afraid, it's in our genes. There was a time when we were close to bottom of the food chain, so fear was even more necessary. The secret is to keep the fear rational. What the worst thing that can happen, can you handle that? The fear is diminished. Keep focusing on the awful and the fear grows in power. <br />Sometimes it's smart to be afraid, it can save you from extreme harm.<br />Say yes but to the things you believe in.Tom Hornnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-89315127025940504882013-08-12T16:42:27.039-07:002013-08-12T16:42:27.039-07:00Good point, Marge!Good point, Marge!Kim's Kitchen Sinkhttp://www.kimskitchensink.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-56011856008444877742013-08-12T15:44:16.707-07:002013-08-12T15:44:16.707-07:00yes it can...it is hard when you want to help on ...yes it can...it is hard when you want to help on certain things. You really don't know if you can"t (or you shouldn't)I don't like to step on peoples toes and I won't.Marge Palmernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-22350922163375881692013-08-12T15:08:03.955-07:002013-08-12T15:08:03.955-07:00I hear ya, Trina. It can be so hard to hold that u...I hear ya, Trina. It can be so hard to hold that uncomfortable feeling, when you want to help but know you can't (or shouldn't).Kim's Kitchen Sinkhttp://www.kimskitchensink.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-75554600409600684862013-08-12T14:53:05.320-07:002013-08-12T14:53:05.320-07:00I am definitely in this post. My husband calls me...I am definitely in this post. My husband calls me "Mother Teresa" because I'm always helping people. I don't really have a problem saying no, but I do walk away from helping people with an uncomfortable feeling sometimes. I've learned that helping others can heal, but it can also hurt us and the one's we love, when we over extend ourselves.Trina Cooperhttp://www.empowernetwork.com/?id=brownie38cnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-26183767333653030342013-08-01T20:11:14.898-07:002013-08-01T20:11:14.898-07:00Sure, I know her overall concept is about stepping...Sure, I know her overall concept is about stepping up to the place at work, in our careers, etc. and not about saying yes to everything. But that can definitely lead to feelings of "if I don't take advantage of this opportunity, I'm missing out" or "If I say no to that extra project, it will damage my career." I'm all for leaning in in the general sense - recognizing our value and sitting at the table and whatnot. And maybe it's because I'm traditionally such a yes person that I hear "lean in" and interpret it as "do more", but I think there is a counter-argument to the "we can have it all" mentality. I don't think we (or anyone) can "have it all" (and what does that even mean, really?), and it just puts a lot of pressure on us all. Personal interpretations being what they are, I read Lean In and was motivated to take on the world instead of just focusing in on a few key areas one at a time. I got into a "go go go" mindset, until I realized that saying yes to every opportunity, even if they all could potentially move my career forward, was saying yes to too much.Kim's Kitchen Sinkhttp://www.kimskitchensink.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-45422512806797860492013-08-01T20:06:06.935-07:002013-08-01T20:06:06.935-07:00Just read this post that's been going around, ...Just read this post that's been going around, and thought I'd share: http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2013/07/31/why-and-how-creative-people-need-to-say-no/Kim's Kitchen Sinkhttp://www.kimskitchensink.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-17456007147039042772013-08-01T04:10:42.268-07:002013-08-01T04:10:42.268-07:00Just feel Free :) topboss.pkJust feel Free :) topboss.pktopboss.pknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-10402973166744228092013-08-01T03:51:10.598-07:002013-08-01T03:51:10.598-07:00Interesting post... but I'm not sure that what...Interesting post... but I'm not sure that what Sandberg was getting at with the "lean in" concept was about saying yes to everything. She was referring to realizing what things to say yes to, and which are not worth the time and should be delegated or not done at all. Leaning in at work place discussions, walking up and introducing oneself to senior colleagues at conferences/meetings, these are not things that take extra time, just extra guts (you're at the conference anyway, right? just depends on how you want to get out of it). In fact, I'm pretty sure she would frown upon women becoming overly committed (maybe she talked about this, I'm not sure) to volunteer tasks but instead choosing wisely the ones that will have the biggest impact on their career. I've only recently started saying no to emails asking me to do things that won't move my career forward. It feels crappy because I'm a yes person to, but there are only so many hours in the day.Jen Glassnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-20592303830099067232013-08-01T00:12:30.668-07:002013-08-01T00:12:30.668-07:00http://www.hotdressmart.com/ graceful wedding dre...http://www.hotdressmart.com/ graceful wedding dressAngelia linhttp://www.topdressmarket.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-55687981034998102702013-07-31T23:03:27.813-07:002013-07-31T23:03:27.813-07:00I like to ask, "Why am I saying yes? Is it be...I like to ask, "Why am I saying yes? Is it because this is truly something I want to do, or because I will feel badly if I say no? What am I afraid of?"Kim's Kitchen Sinkhttp://www.kimskitchensink.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-54411189599691165472013-07-31T21:23:43.710-07:002013-07-31T21:23:43.710-07:00I can relate to this! Big surprise, huh? I have ...I can relate to this! Big surprise, huh? I have had to repeat the mantra: "pause, make a mindful decision" over and over and over. Especially at work where my uncontrollable hand raises itself at every volunteer opportunity. I must sit on my hands! Time to give others a chance to step up.amyweisbergnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-50459951938081332602013-07-31T18:57:37.053-07:002013-07-31T18:57:37.053-07:00"In the information overload age it's eas..."In the information overload age it's easy to feel like we're missing out instead of prioritizing and appreciating saying No." Yes, this exactly. Exactly this. <br /><br /><br />I think a balance is key. Right now my Yes-No scale is tipped far too heavily in the Yes direction. I need a whole lotta No's to get it back to some sort of equilibrium.Kim's Kitchen Sinkhttp://www.kimskitchensink.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6214008852340471685.post-89126488541034718182013-07-31T18:51:01.786-07:002013-07-31T18:51:01.786-07:00I appreciate balance and find some weeks I'm m...I appreciate balance and find some weeks I'm more No, others more Yes, depending on how I'm feeling mentally, physically, emotionally. I definitely embrace the power of No and the rest and rejuvenation it can bring so I can more fully say Yes to other things. In the information overload age it's easy to feel like we're missing out instead of prioritizing and appreciating saying No. <br /><br />I think it's probably something we are all in process with throughout our lives; wanting to be there for people and fun things but also not run ourselves ragged. And extroverts may tend to say Yes more than introverts.Jessica Hamlinnoreply@blogger.com